In Defense of Bronies and “My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic”

Let’s just cut right to the chase.

I am a brony.

Once you’ve recovered from your shock, please continue reading. I promise I’m not insane.

All good? Okay.

So, I think by now pretty much everybody is aware of the “brony” phenomenon/controversy. Even if they’re not, I’m sure they’ve at least heard of the My Little Pony franchise, which started back in the 1980s. To give a very short summary, it started out as a toy line and soon spawned TV tie-ins, which included standalone specials, actual shows, and direct-to-video releases. There were three “generations” of the franchise until recently, with Generation 1 beginning in the 80s and Generation 3 in the early 2000s.

Based on a little bit of personal experience (we had a video that came with one of the toys ages ago) along with some research (mainly an hour-long documentary I found on Youtube), I can safely say that the older generations of My Little Pony were what you would think: cartoons aimed squarely at young girls with very little characterization, shallow stories, over-the-top cuteness . . . basically a show that is painful to watch for parents and older siblings.

Those older shows, however, are a thing of the past. In 2010, Hasbro launched a new generation of the My Little Pony franchise on the new Hub Network cable channel (formerly Discovery Kids). The show was headed by Lauren Faust, a veteran of cartoons who is most well-known for her work on Foster’s Home For Imaginary Friends and The Powerpuff Girls. When given the task to create the new show, she wanted to make something that would be enjoyable for both kids and their parents.

And boy, did she do it.


The latest generation of the My Little Pony show was called My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic. It was released to mostly positive reviews from critics, and by the end of the first season was the most-watched show on the channel.

The basic premise of the show is this: in the land of Equestria (haha), in the castle at the capital city of Canterlot (haha), a scholastic pony named Twilight Sparkle (basically the Hermione Granger of the pony universe) lives as a student of supreme ruler Princess Celestia. At the beginning of the series, Twilight is sent to the town of Ponyville to learn about the magic of friendship.

Twilight Sparkle and one of her favorite hobbies: reading.

Twilight Sparkle doing one of her favorite hobbies: reading.

The princess gives her this task mainly because Twilight isn’t very skilled at making new friends. She has books, what other friends does she need? But she goes, and she ends up meeting five other ponies: Pinkie Pie, Applejack, Rarity, Rainbow Dash, and Fluttershy.

Five of the "mane six," as they're referred to by the fandom. From left to right: Fluttershy, Applejack, Rarity, Pinkie Pie, and Rainbow Dash.

Five of the “mane six,” as they’re referred to by the fandom. From left to right: Fluttershy, Applejack, Rarity, Pinkie Pie, and Rainbow Dash.

In each episode, one or more of the characters learns an important lesson about friendship, and Twilight reports these to the princess via letters. That’s the very basic overall story, but it gets much more complex than that as it goes along.

If you thought that all of the show’s viewers were little girls and sometimes their parents, you’d be wrong. The show now has a huge fanbase, which is especially prominent on the Internet (I’m sure you’ve seen some pony memes before), and a significant portion of the fanbase is made up of guys. Not just any guys, mind you — teenage and adult guys. They like to call themselves “bronies,” and I’m pretty sure I don’t need to explain the etymology. (“Brony,” by the way, is now a term used for both male and female fans of the show. Another name for a female fan is “pegasister,” but this isn’t as widely used.)

You’re probably already aware of this phenomenon, but you may be wondering: WHY? Why on earth would grown men be interested in a show targeted at 8-year-old girls? Are they pedophiles or something? Or are they just seriously out-of-wack in the head? And for that matter, are YOU out-of-wack in the head? You said yourself you’re a brony!

Well, to answer, I’ll begin with the story of how I became a brony.

My first exposure to the show was through — you guessed it —  the Internet. I saw pictures from the show, memes, GIFs, all that kind of thing. And on some forums, I read about how guys were watching the show. My thoughts were very skeptical — I mean, a cartoon about ponies? And guys were watching this? Psh. What a joke.

Fast forward through time. One day, I walked into the living room to find my sisters watching a cartoon on Netflix. It didn’t take me long to recognize it as that weird new My Little Pony show. I stared at my sisters.

“You can’t be serious.”

They told me the show was funny, and good. I rolled my eyes and brushed it off.

My sisters continued watching the show pretty often, and occasionally I would catch a glimpse of it. I didn’t see anything that convinced me. But after a while, my sisters started calling me into the room so they could show me a funny clip from the show, most often a facial expression or two. And —  against my will, it seemed — I found myself laughing. Quite hard, actually.

As a result, my thought process changed a bit. Maybe, just maybe, the show was all right. That didn’t mean I was going to actually watch it, though. What would my friends think, especially the guys? Well, they didn’t have to know, but still . . . it was clearly a girls’ show, right? My masculinity was at stake.

Still, though, every now and then my sisters would show me another funny clip . . . and I got more and more interested.

To be perfectly honest, I don’t remember exactly how or when it happened, but I finally sat down and watched an entire episode with my sisters. Followed by another. And another. And another.

And a couple of weeks ago, I finished the entire currently released series on Netflix.

But WHY? I can almost hear your thoughts right now:


I’ll tell ya.

First of all, it’s not junk. Not in the slightest. The old My Little Pony cartoons had little reason to exist other than to help sell the toys. Not this one, though. Friendship is Magic is a good cartoon — heck, it’s a great cartoon! It’s well-written, it has excellent characters, the voice acting is top-notch, the songs are good (no, seriously, they are — and sometimes they’re REALLY good), the animation is fluid and well-styled, and the show teaches great lessons which can apply both to young girls and to anyone else who watches the show. Honesty. Loyalty. Kindness. Generosity. Laughter. These are the kind of things the show encourages.

Okay, you might be thinking. So it’s supposedly not a junky show. But it’s still made for little girls!

Well, that is true on one hand. But on the other hand, as I said before, Lauren Faust and the whole team behind the show made it with the parents in mind. They created a quality show, and quality tends to transcend traditional lines of what kind of things each gender likes or is supposed to like. I don’t hear anyone complaining when a girl is into boyish things. I wonder why it is that guys are ridiculed for being into more “feminine” things? That’s a larger question, though, and I don’t have the space here to fully address that. The main point is that if something is made well, it’ll often reach past the target audience and find fans from all different walks of life, ages, and genders.

This show is good. It just happens to be about ponies, the majority of whom are female. Once you get past that, you might find (as I did) that it’s quite enjoyable. That does not mean in any way, however, that everyone who watches it will like it. It’s not for everyone, and neither is any other show (or book, or movie). But it’s well-made, and I believe it deserves a chance rather than being blown off as a “little girls’ show.”

The show isn’t perfect — no show is. It tends to be overdramatic on occasion (which is also one of my only gripes with Phineas and Ferb), the lessons learned in each episode are nearly always stated explicitly at the end (which sort of makes sense, considering the target audience), and sometimes the villains who pop up sporadically are rather stereotypical (this is largely made up for, however, by one particular villain named Discord who comes at the beginning of Season 2). But, as with Phineas and Ferb, the pluses of the show definitely outweigh the minuses.

Have I mentioned how funny the show is? It’s brimming with humor, and sometimes it’s downright hysterical. There’s word play (e.g. the cities of Manehattan and Cloudsdale), sly pop culture references, fourth wall breaks, and occasionally pure insanity, just to name a few examples. One of the things that drew me most to the show, though, is the facial expressions of the characters. Let me give you a few examples of what the animators are capable of:







And one of my personal favorites . . .

This is a little girls' show?!

This is a little girls’ show?!

I rest my case.

Look, I get it. It sounds weird. I like a cartoon about ponies targeted primarily at little girls. But hey, I’m not alone. As I said, there’s a huge brony fanbase. Many, if not most of them, were probably as skeptical as I was or as you are. But they gave it a shot, and they found that they enjoyed it.

I bet you know what’s coming next. Yes, I want you to give it a chance too.

If you’re a girl, you’re probably okay with giving it a shot. But if you’re a guy, you’re probably backing away slowly right now.

Am I going to shove this down your throat? Absolutely not! I am in no way trying to get you to do something against your will. If you’re not at all interested in trying it, don’t. Simple!

But, if I have managed to pique your interest at least a little, I really think you should try watching it.

The entire currently released series (four seasons) is on Netflix. You can watch in secret. What’s the worst that could happen? You might not be able to watch more than a few minutes. You might get through a whole episode before calling it quits. Or you might find yourself wanting to keep watching.

So, please, if you’re even a little bit interested, I urge you to keep an open mind and just give it a chance. If you don’t like it, IT’S OKAY! I won’t hate you. Pinkie promise.


But hey, if you do end up liking it, that’s great! Welcome to the herd, as they say.

So. Episode suggestions.

You should probably start with the episode “Lesson Zero” (Season 2, Episode 3). It’s a great introduction to the main character, Twilight Sparkle, and gives you an idea of who all the other main characters are. Plus it’s really funny. You might wonder why I don’t suggest you start at the beginning of the series — well, I want to show you what the series is capable of, so I want to show you some of the best episodes. The two-part pilot is good, but it’s not the best introduction to the show. So anyway, “Lesson Zero.” Start there.

IMPORTANT NOTE. Don’t be put off by the title sequence. Trust me, that’s the girliest part of the show. If you can get through that without gagging, you’ll be just fine.

If you make it through that episode and want to try a little more, watch “May the Best Pet Win!” (Season 2, Episode 7). This episode contains one of the best songs in the series so far. I was blown away when I first saw/heard it (especially the last minute or so). If you’ve watched these two episodes and haven’t given up, try “Feeling Pinkie Keen” (Season 1, Episode 15) next.

It should be noted that you really do need to watch more than just two or three episodes to get a proper sampling of the series as a whole, so if you’re still with me, here’s a few more, in no particular watching order (although I’ll list them chronologically):

  • “Applebuck Season” (Season 1, Episode 4)
  • “Dragonshy” (Season 1, Episode 7)
  • “Sonic Rainboom” (Season 1, Episode 16)
  • “The Super Speedy Cider Squeezy 6000” (Season 2, Episode 15) (This one has a great musical number that pays homage to “Ya Got Trouble” from Meredith Wilson’s The Music Man.)
  • “Read It and Weep” (Season 2, Episode 16)
  • “Hurricane Fluttershy” (Season 2, Episode 22)
  • “Too Many Pinkie Pies” (Season 3, Episode 3)

If you’ve watched all of these and still want to try more, just face it. You are now a brony. And you should now just watch in chronological order from the beginning.

Okay, I think that pretty much covers it. Hopefully you don’t think I’m crazy, or feminine, or that I’ve lost my man card or something.

The  main point to take away from all of this is that, yes, the show is made primarily for young girls. But the key word is primarily. It’s a good quality show, and lots of fun, which is why I enjoy it. Just because it’s about colorful ponies doesn’t make it bad.

If you’re feeling brave, give it a shot. Really. Again, if you don’t like it, IT’S OKAY! I don’t want you to watch it if you don’t like it. I just think it deserves a chance. I really do.

All right, I’d better sign off before I ramble too long. Let me know your thoughts in the comments!

Until next week, friends!



  1. I KNEW you were awesome, Maffles! This is just the absolute best!

    See, I came to love this show almost the same way you did, though I wasn’t totally against it or anything. I am a girl after all, and I actually was totally into the MLP thing back in the day–had the toys, watched the show, all that fun stuff. But I was just confused with this one, because I thought it was for 8 year old girls. I couldn’t wrap my mind around the fact that teens were watching this. And not only that but MALE teens. What was going ON?!?! But my sister had it on all the time, and the more I saw, the more I realized, “Hey, this show is kinda cool.” And then I watched some more and…well…the rest is history. It’s one of my top favorite shows now. I’m unhealthily obsessed with it. I think it’s awesome (and kind of totally hilarious) how a My Little Pony show has taken the world by storm. It’s great! XD

    What I love the best is the continuing plot. Sure, each episode can stand alone, but there’s still an overall story. If something drastically changes in one episode, that thing is going to stay drastically changed in the rest. Most cartoons like this just don’t do that. I want ALL my TV to have continuation. And, as you pointed out, it’s just downright hilarious. They don’t dumb all the jokes down just for little kids. The overall quality is just amazing.

    But, I’ll be honest, sometimes I get annoyed with the songs. I would think at this point they would know so much of their fanbase is older people, boys included, and would tone down on the music a bit. But maybe I’m the only one that gets annoyed. Don’t get me wrong! There’s definitely some I enjoy, but usually I want my TV song-free. BUT to counteract that, my favorite part is totally the title sequence. (And I may sing along with it sometimes.) So don’t go dissing the theme song! :P

    Okay, I think I’ve blabbered enough. If you can’t tell, I get pretty excited on this subject. I can’t tell you how thrilled I am to hear you like it too!

    So, who’s your favorite pony? Mine’s Pinkie Pie, obviously. Because, ya know, Pinkie Pie. I don’t need a reason. ;)


    • Haha, totally agree that it’s pretty awesome how popular this show has gotten. Also about the continuity! I was intrigued in particular by the overarching plotline of Season 4, and failed at guessing what it was all about. XD

      It’s fine if you don’t quite agree with me about the songs, lol. Hey, at least there’s not a song in every single episode, right? I do think that would probably be overkill. (And I wasn’t dissing the title sequence, I just thought some might be put off by it. :P)

      I’m glad at least some people are thrilled about this! Favorite pony… it’s a tie between Pinkie and Fluttershy. No idea how the tie might be broken. Guess we’ll see what Season 5 brings, right? :D


  2. This was an interesting post! XD I don’t particularly want to try watching an episode at this point if only because I do NOT need to get addicted to any more shows (I don’t have enough time as it is. :P) but knowing that my Lauri and my Maffles both think fairly highly of it is quite incredible to me! I will respect it at least. And I think owning that you enjoy so-called “girlie” things, instead of hiding it, actually proves your “man card” or whatever more than getting rid of it. XD A great post in defense of bronies. *nods nods*


  3. It’s funny that I became a brony actually watching the pilot episodes. As I was first a simple anime fanatic, I liked (still do) start with the start. But I didn’t start it because I wanted just like that, but because a friend of mine started watching it and one they he told me about it, he felt just a bit scared of telling because he tought I would think weird. Can’t say I got a little laugh at first, but I didn’t judged hard and say it was cool if he liked that stuff, he was still my friend. He showed stuff to prove why it couldn’t be “just for girls” as a compilation of pain Twilight has received (through season 1 and 2) and dayum was funny. After a while I decided to give it a try, besides I wanted to forget some not good memories.

    And like I said, I started with the two pilot episodes and that made me love it. Why? Because they were really great, even if it didn’t show a lot of the stuff it would be. Because it had a little of plot line and that introduces the reason Twilight studies the magic of friendship. And even when it was a bit of a cliché, I actually cried at it lol but in a good way of cry, like when you get into the story (but like I said, I already knew how it was going to be).

    So, I agree with you. Those are some of the best episodes to start and see how much the show has, but if you really want to “start give those to the start. That’s what I think c: but we al, have different opinions, anyway ^_^

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  4. It seems the show also helps people with issues (Most of them atleast). Take me for example, i started watching the show when i was started getting depressed because of my ex-girlfriend… I couldn’t happiness at the slightest. This show helped me alot getting through the difficult times!

    Thanks Lauren Faust.
    Thanks MLP.
    And thanks to you too, Matthew R.
    For given this honest speach which i can totally relate too :D

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  5. Hey there, glad to hear that you are proud of who you became! You know, a lot of people who aren’t fans of this show hate us for watching said TV show. There is going to be a good majority of hate out there, so be prepared man. I know because I experienced through it myself. It’s a stab through the heart at first, but don’t let that affect you in any way or another. Going through hate is something that is gonna happen, and something that you will have to get used to. If you ever need somepony to talk to, you have bronies out there that can give moral support! I put a website as the webpage. That leads to a website for my Facebook group. Click on the link, click “Join Us On Facebook (shows a pink button on the home page with Pinkie Pie), press ” accept” on the server page and click “join group” on the group. When you join, let us know that you’re from here. If you’re having trouble, go to our support center on the BPC site and contact us there. Brony on man! /)

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  6. I find my own fandom in the show quite hilarious on my end. It didn’t start from the show itself, but rather the stuff made from other fans. Whether it was stuff making fun of the show and characters, to really good background ideas made from others. After getting into watching that stuff, I found myself more accepting to giving the show itself a chance. There’s hits and misses, but there’s no show that’s simply perfect. I went from a couple episodes here and there, to marathons whenever the mood came to me.

    When I was a kid I wasn’t into the original my little ponies, though, I might have had a pony or two because of my parents buying me them. Never thought I’d find my grown self watching the show, let alone the songs, too. I’m also glad you specified bronies being both male and female fans. Seem although its used for either, too many think its just for males.

    My favorite ponies are Twilight Sparkle and Pinkie Pie, but I think I love Pinkie Pie more. For me she’s too hard to pass up, she’s just too hilarious.

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  7. this is a very good article I came into it a bit differently having no sisters but as an avid lover of cartoons and quality television who has never let go of my inner ten year old. more i just new it was a phenomenon via reddit and decided to find out why. I was not at all offput by fandoms as I have been around trekkies, cosplayers, and gamers most of my life but this one i actually found that i belonged in (trekkies were a close second but to many of them where socially maladjusted and just a bit ‘too’ weird) thanks for posting this and I will forward it about the internets, um, if thats alright with you? Hoofbump.

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  8. awesome post my friend ^_^, I actually heard the term Brony on YouTube while watching a vid, and I was like “What the heck is a Brony” then they went ahead and said that it’s what fans of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic call themeselves, then it caught my interest, grown men watching My Little Pony? And yes, I obviously knew of MLP before I heard what a Brony was, and like you said, I was skeptical a first, I began watching the 1st episode with this thought in mind “am I REALLY going through with this? Am I really watching an episode of My Liitle Pony? I MUST be going crazy” But I thought the first episode was ok, I knew Rainbow Dash already, she’s literally EVERYWHERE on the Internet, so I decided to watch the 2nd episode…..then the 3rd, then before I knew it, I was hooked, I finished the first 3 seasons m, then when I heard Seadon 4 was coming out, I was estatic, and I LOVED the fight scene between Twilight and Tirek, reminded me a lot of the anime Dragon Ball Z which is another one of my favs, so again, awesome post and Brohoof my Brony Brother /)

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  9. I was a big Sailor Moon fan (still am) back in the day, so I’ve never been one to pay attention to the whole this is for girls vs. boys thing. I noticed memes for the show and I suspected I’d become obsessed. I was already a Xenite and a Whovian and my gut said I’d connect to MLP as well. Sure enough I’m now a Xenite Whovian Brony. I love how MLP will feature different kinds of personality issues and teach appropriate and supportive responses. My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic teaching the world about empathy!

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